We made tons of mistakes as new parakeet owners, but one night we managed to make pretty much all the mistakes in about a 45 minute period.
It was about one week after Toby came to live with us, and everything had been going great, we’d made a huge commitment to spending time sitting near her cage talking to her, and we had even begun putting a hand in the cage to let her adjust to us and get to know our hands as friendly visitors.
Our first major fail had been ongoing up to that point, we hadn’t been taking very much care to make sure Toby went to sleep early. Currently, both birds start relaxing with the curtains closed at about 6:00pm and we start dimming the lights at 7:00pm. On the night in question, however, I arrived home about 8:30pm and the house was still brightly lit and Toby was playing while watching Patrick make his dinner.
I hung out with Patrick in the kitchen and we get on the subject of some changes we thought would really enhance Toby’s experience in the cage, and then we made the extremely poor decision to make those changes that evening. To contrast, now when we make changes in the cage we always do it in the morning so the parakeets have a ton of time to adjust before bedtime, you really never know what’s going to freak them out.
To my recollection we had decided to switch around two perches so Toby could get around more easily, as she was struggling with learning to climb around on the cage bars. Patrick’s hands went in first and I kept a close watch on the door – Toby went to a corner and seemed totally fine (in retrospect, Toby seemed like she was absolutely terrified).
Patrick ran into a snag in moving one of the perches and I made the critical error – putting one of my hands in the cage as well. Toby immediately decided her chances for survival were greater outside the cage and bolted for freedom.
Now what we had on our hands was a fully flighted, completely terrified, mostly feral parakeet lose in the house. She didn’t trust us, she had no training in sitting on our hands, she was not skilled enough to be able to get back in the cage even if she wanted to, and worst of all, she had no experience with millet or any other treat and we had no method of coaxing her to us and then back in the cage.
Imagine trapping a sparrow, putting it in your house, and then trying to convince it to enter a very specific, small doorway. Oh and also it’s 9pm at night.
I shut every door possible, but this still left Toby with the hallway, kitchen, dining area, and living room. All I can say about what happened after this is we basically lost our minds for 30 minutes. In a total panic we followed Toby around the house trying to catch her with our hands, throw a towel over her (!!! so glad that didn’t work), or just generally tire her out enough to grab her, which was a total joke.
She ended up on top of the refrigerator, the living room curtain rod, behind/underneath the entertainment center, inside a sound panel suspended from the ceiling, and everywhere but on us. I’m sure it seemed like all her nightmares come to life having two huge predators chase her around and roust her out of whatever refuge she took.
I finally grabbed a sheet and used it to shepherd her into the kitchen/dining area and away from the living room. She even landed on top of her cage a few times but just had absolutely no idea how to get back in – which I’m sure she desperately wanted to do to get away from us! In retrospect I have no idea why we panicked so badly – there was really no time urgency and yet we behaved as though we had to get her back in the cage immediately. It would have been much better to take a step back and give her 15 minutes to calm down and think – or at least for us to calm down and think.
She finally perched on top of a stained glass window in our dining area and stayed put. At this point a lightbulb went on for me and I said “you know, I’ve read that if you press your finger into her tummy she will have no choice put to step on it”.
Toby eyed us warily as we lifted her entire cage onto the dining room table with the door facing her. Then Patrick approached gingerly and pressed his finger lengthwise against Toby’s stomach, right above her feet. She immediately stepped up and as we all held our breath, Patrick conveyed her about two feet into his cage and shut the door.
The ordeal ended with Toby cowering in the corner of her cage until she went to sleep and Patrick and I having a stiff drink to wash down our shame.
We were ultimately fortune that Toby didn’t trust us at all yet, otherwise I’m sure we would have broken that. As it was we didn’t notice any change in her behavior the next day, just a lot of changes in us and a lot more respect for her boundaries.
Summary of mistakes:
– Parakeet up too late
– Over-confidence in bird’s level of comfort with cage adjustments
– Deciding to make changes to cage layout in the evening
– Deciding to make changes to cage layout with parakeet in cage
– Putting multiple people’s hands in the cage at the same time
– Not knowing how to read the parakeet’s body language
– Panicking about the bird being out and forgetting essential basics
14 thoughts on “One flew out of the parakeet’s cage”
Very interesting. Seems like you had one of those ‘tough learning lesson’ moments. Great that you can share your experiences from it so that others don’t have the same experience! Thanks.
Adorable and humorous story. Kids and pets bring such fun memories!
I didnt know so much went into bird care! Glad it had a relatively good ending!
Aww, sounds like that was a rough evening for sure! Glad you were able to get her back into the cage though!
This is really great, and helpful i think to people who want to own a parakeet for the first time.
We want to get a bird at some point in time (not sure which one), so this post helps – thank you!
There’s really so much to consider when you take a new pet home. I’m glad that you managed though despite what happened.
It sounds like pure chaos but at least you all survived the night! I can only imagine what it was like that night!
Glad about the happy end! I love animals so much, we never know enough about them, there’s always something new to learn!
This made me lol. I had parakeets a long time ago and had a similar experience. It ended with a stiff drink.
This brought back serious memories when I had a parakeet as a child. My mom used to let them out for exercise and one day they didn’t want to go back in the cage. But most of the time, they went in on their own.
I can’t imagine how a bird could do such trouble to an entire house. You seem to love your pet so much.
Such beautiful creatures, these! We used to have loads of birds growing up – finches, budgies, etc. Such fond memories. 🙂