When we were first setting up Kevin’s cage for quarantine I had some very misguided and idyllic notions about how this 30 day span would play out. I pictured Patrick and I hanging out with Kevin tucked away in his room. No care for the outside world, just a magical time for taming and bonding. In reality, quarantine is hard, much harder than I expected.
For starters, Kevin has been a pretty tough sell on human interaction. He’s docile and he’ll put up with a lot of handling, but he’s really not into it. And he’s still pretty freaked out, which makes sense after living in a pet store for over a year. We are spending a ton of time with him, but it’s not all that gratifying. I know that part will pass.
The other piece of it that I hadn’t anticipated the emotional weight of is that while Patrick and I are in with Kevin teaching him that humans are a good thing; Toby and Kelly are losing a ton of their human time and outside the cage play time. They are not shy about letting me know it’s unacceptable. I was only able to let them out for an hour one day, so they next they were crazy clingy and on me like tiny flying shadows. Not that I’m complaining about that, it’s nice to feel loved!
Another thing I hadn’t calculated the time cost of is maintaining three cages in two separate locations. It’s usually pretty easy to clean up after Toby and Kelly, and get their food and water in the mornings. But with a third cage in a different location with no sink in the room….it’s kind of a pain in the rear. I’m sure this is hyperbole, but some days I feel like all I do is take care of budgie needs without really enjoying any of the budgies. I can’t imagine how people manage quarantine when they’ve got a larger flock to tend!
After a few days of both Patrick and I trying to be everywhere at once we decided to divide and conquer. Patrick is largely taking care of Kevin’s physical needs and training and I’m taking care of the girls. I’m still getting at least 30 minutes with Kevin every day, but I don’t feel pressure to push him on taming, I can just hang out and feed him Millet, say nice things to him and working on stepping up and other easy things.
Patrick, on the other hand, has trimmed Kevin’s nails, given him a bath, and even made him taste some vegetables. He has also spent hours challenging Kevin to move around outside and inside his cage, and helped Kevin learn how to climb on the cage bars.
It’s a fairly large bummer for me to miss out on all of this, but I don’t see another way to go about it that’s fair to Toby and Kelly. I thought I was really going to enjoy this quarantine time, but in reality it’s full of unanticipated challenges.
2 thoughts on “Quarantine is hard! Feeling stretched thin by everyone’s needs.”
Sounds like you guys are doing your best in order to do your birds justice. Don’t be too hard on yourself.
It takes a lot of patience to take a bird and between spending time with him, feeding him treats and getting used to humans you’re doing good.
I found it hard going with some of my birds but usually all of a sudden, when you least expect it they are fine with you and start getting more demanding to their humans. Keep at it, make your way through quarantine and take it a day at a time.
It’s a major culture shock for Kevin but he’ll get there… Good luck xxxx
Thank you so much for your kind words! Goodness knows I need them 🙂 I’ve been checking in on him on our security camera today and he is still not moving around much at all.
I keep hoping that every day will be the suddenly okay day! I know you’re right and it will happen, just have to get through it day by day.
Thank you again!